Have you ever had that moment in your life where you pause and ask yourself the question what if? I personally have a lot of regrets in life....I have walked away from many people and many situations in life...simply because i didn't know what else to do, or i was simply too chickenshit to deal with my life at that given moment. I recently connected with somebody that I used to know 20 some odd years ago....and discovered their life has not been a very good one, from most accepted points of view...and it got me asking that question to myself...what if? Would this person have had a better life if i hadn't walked out of it? Would my life or theirs be worse if i had stayed? You can drive yourself crazy with this circular pattern.....I'm a firm believer that things happen they way they happen for a reason....we may never know exactly what that reason is....but i believe it none the less...
Yea i know it has been months since i have posted here....even after i promised to try and keep this blog up to date, but i felt this warranted a new post...
I say now that if you get the chance to set a past situation to rights i urge you to do it....and don't kill yourself wondering what if....and deal with life in the here and now and worry about the future...but you must also learn from the past or be doomed to repeat/re-live it...
just my .02
